Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Welcome to the School of Ducks :)

So I have been thinking about starting a blog for a while but couldn't think of anything that I would want to continue writing about that would keep anyone interested. We (my husband and I) recently decided to homeschool our daughter. This was a very difficult and then exciting decision. We started the process and I have been so over the moon with how much she loves it that I just want to share it with the world. So now the blog, School of Ducks has been born! I figure that this is a great way to keep family and friends who are interested in our progress informed with out boring all the ones who would rather not see long status messages. ;) Also, if there are other parents like us out there who are going through the same stages, emotions, and struggles as we are maybe sharing our adventure will be helpful. Anyways, I guess I should get this started.

The School of Ducks got it's name from a nickname I gave my husband when we were dating (Ducky) after that it kind of became a thing and everyone I know was buying and showing me ducks. <3  Ducks are so cute! So it stuck, ducks are my thing. Our daughter is my duckling and is also called my Tiny Duck from time to time. It only seemed a natural choice when they asked me to name my blog. ;)

One of the first question we got from people was "Why?"

The question wasn't asked with ill intentions. Both my husband and I were educated in the public school system and graduated. We're fairly intelligent and I guess people just get curious. It can be a tough question to answer sometimes with all the different preconceived notions out there, so here's the best we can do. We are choosing to homeschool during her early years for several reasons. One of the most important is that public schools do not provide a whole lot of one on one attention because of the teacher/student ratio. These years are the most formative and will lay the foundation for her education. We want to make sure that it is a strong one and that she has a firm grasp on all the basics before proceeding to other subject. There's also the fact that as her parents we spend a lot of time with her which allows us to know what she best responds to, as far different learning styles and are able to teach specifically in her learning style instead of trying to cater to several student's styles at once.
 
Another question we've gotten, "Do you think you can do it?"
This question can carry a bit of sting with it. If you're like us there was probably that doubt there anyway. There's no perfect way to be a parent and we're all pretty sure we're screwing it up from time to time, so making a big decision such as homeschooling can be scary to say the least. Here's the thing. We taught her how to walk, talk, eat, and go potty to name just a few things. She can already count to 10 (13 or 14 on a good day), knows basic shapes, and colors. I'd say we were pretty decent teachers. The work through out Kindergarten is pretty basic stuff and the can be taught in fun everyday activities by us easily.

 
The last big question we get is "What about socialization?"
This is from the people concerned that our (only) child won't know what to do around other kids. Well part of the glory of home school is the freedom you get from not being restricted to a classroom. There are plenty of other things we can do to keep our little social butterfly interactive. There are parks and museums where she can play and learn. There are also playgroups and groups for homeschoolers to get together. There are cousins to play with and also the kids from her church group, that she gets to see about twice a week. Have no fears out little one won't suffer from being a shut in. ;)

Okay that's it for our most frequent questions. I guess I should tell you about where we're at now. Our daughter is four years old and in our state you have to be five to start Kindergarten in the public schools. In some subjects, such as her colors and numbers she is closer to a Kindergarten level then Preschool, but with her letters she is still in the process of learning them on a Preschool level. She is not behind in writing, but is not as advanced as she is in the other subjects. One of the glorious things about home schooling is we are able to cater to her level in each subject so she is not stuck doing preschool colors while she's on a kindergarten level and not being forced into a subject level she's not ready for such as kindergarten letters.

We are using several online resources as well as homemade activities and activities out of the MEAD Preschool Workbook. The workbook is a great resource for us and if your child learns like ours I'd definitely recommend it. She is very excited about getting to "play" with her workbook everyday. She wakes up asking when she can learn and her fire for it lights me up. We haven't decided how far into the future we're going to continue homeschooling. I call it "Our journey/adventure/learning experience" because it's as much of a learning process for us as it is for her. We are constantly learning more about how she learns and how to be better parents through this process. We're excited to continue it until we feel as though it is no longer in her best interest.

Alright, if you made it all the way through this you're probably related to me lol if not congratulations hope you enjoyed this ramble :)

1 comment:

  1. Haha im so related to you ... I have some workbooks I use for David and alissa but they dont like help they are the independent type and they never believe you when you tell them they did it wrong lol

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